A Stitch of Support
On my HCA shift in a neurology and stroke unit, I encountered a patient experiencing multiple seizures daily. I witnessed four episodes in one shift, each leaving her visibly drained. During the first seizure, she was on the floor, surrounded by staff and crash mats. While I recognised this patient was experiencing a seizure, I did not understand her condition or the staff’s calm, repetitive responses.
One nurse continually reassured her, repeating who was present and that she was safe. Initially, I found the repetition condescending and even frustrating, until I noticed one particular phrase: the nurse reminded her that her three favourite stuffed animals were with her, supporting her. Since she was an adult without developmental delay, this struck me as unusual yet powerful.
Later, I noticed a note above her bed instructing staff to use the plushies as part of her support during seizures. Watching this patient cling to them during episodes deeply moved me. I had underestimated how something so simple could play such a vital role in her care, and it reshaped my perspective on patient support systems.
For my creative piece, I crocheted a stuffed animal. Each stitch symbolised the importance of personalised care, and the patience required reminded me of the focused purpose needed in providing comfort. I photographed the piece on an unmade bed and in my hand, reflecting the vulnerability and resilience of the patient’s daily experiences.
Effective Consulting Year One, 2024 – 2025

Thank you for sharing this, I really like your journey through initially not fully understanding why the nurses were using certain phrases to seeing how a personalised approach can be implemented to help comfort a patient much more than a standardised one.