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The Shadowed Carer

Catherine McNamara

My creative piece is based on an encounter in a GP practice. A woman came in to talk to the doctor about her husband for whom she was a full-time carer. As the consultation progressed the GP started asking her about her health and wellbeing. The woman started to cry and confessed she wasn’t coping well. She wasn’t sleeping properly – her own health was clearly not her priority. She already had diagnosed depression and was neglecting her general health due to the severity of her husband’s condition. The GP talked with her for a while and spoke about the importance of self-care and a balance in her life. He also supported the woman with some of the worries she had about her husband.
I chose this clinical encounter because it struck me that often carers who live with the person they care for put their own health second. On reflection, perhaps the patient came in with the pretense of talking about her husband and his treatment – as when asked about herself she seemed so relieved to be able to talk to confide in the doctor. It showed me the vital importance of active listening and trust in the doctor-patient relationship.
I decided to develop this creative piece in mixed media because it uses multiple different materials and combines them into one piece of art. There are many aspects of patients’ lives which contribute to their health and wellbeing including social, psychological, environmental and physical. The muted, grey figure behind the brightly coloured image is meant to represent how at home carers can put their own health second to those that they care for.
I felt a great sympathy towards this woman as it was clear she was struggling to cope and needed someone to talk to. The way she unloaded her feelings to the GP gave the impression she had been holding them in for a while. It showed me the importance of talking through your problems with someone you feel safe with. I also felt upset that this woman was going through this struggle alone.
When I left the surgery, I reflected on the importance of looking at the bigger picture and the many aspects of patients’ lives which contribute to them turning up at the GP practice. It also made me think more about the role of carers in society, how essential and often under-valued they are.
Effective Consulting, Year One
Creative Assignment Prize-winner 2019-2020