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To be true to one another in the good times and in bad, in sickness and in health

Mihir Patel

This work reflects the comforting value any relationship has on a human being bearing the hardships of sickness and ill health, in particular marriage. I was fortunate enough to meet this amazing couple during a home visit. Sarah* had a lot to teach us because she required constant supplemental oxygen. Initially her conditions significantly affected her life. She had to leave her job, she was becoming increasingly unconfident and her condition hampered her enthusiasm to leave the house. Deterioration of her health almost seemed inevitable. However, I was quickly told by Sarah that being on oxygen doesn’t affect her enjoyment of life anymore. Hearing this I was quite shocked considering respiratory conditions can often be the most debilitating. I would later learn a lot of this optimism could be credited to Mike, Sarah’s husband. Whether it was persistently nagging Sarah to get up from her chair or it was carrying two scuba-esque oxygen tanks on his back to allow Sarah to go for a walk, Mike has really played a major role in keeping Sarah afloat and sharing the burden of her condition. I chose to reflect on this particular encounter as I felt it taught me a lot about how family and loved ones play a massive role in rehabilitation with family members often taking up the role as caregiver. Positive attitudes and reinforcement from family members can inspire patients’ commitment to recovery and help them adapt to new physical challenges or limitations. They also help patients deal with issues of self-esteem related to their condition.  

The creative medium I chose was a pencil drawing because pencil marks can be both bold or delicate (and my piece required a lot of erasing). I chose to use curved lines to symbolise the comfort and ease in their relationship while using more straight lines in the image of sickness to reflect an understanding that sickness can make relationships more difficult. Purposefully using continuous lines creates and reinforces the concept that relationships are always connected to health in some way, whether it be physical health, mental health or health behaviours. In each distinct image, there are always two people present because a key message I learnt from Sarah and Mike is that in situations where you hope for the best recovery, the person who is ‘ill’ should never feel alone. Whether that be relatives and friends, or it be doctors and nurses, support and words of encouragement are needed during recovery and can sometimes be undervalued.  

*I have changed names and details for confidentiality purposes

Effective Consulting, Year One,
Shortlisted for a Creative Assignment Prize 2019 – 2020