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Connectedness in the Context of Healthcare

Jennifer Kingswell

My first healthcare experiences were within geriatric care, alongside patients with moderate to severe dementia. The people I met were some of the most isolated in society and, despite their apparent lack of cognitive agility, becoming increasingly disconnected from family and society undoubtedly impacted on their self-healing and resilience both to their dementia and to other illnesses. In the frightening journey that is Alzheimer’s disease, the progressive loss of connection to one’s surroundings, family, friends, outside networks, and loss of connectedness to oneself is perhaps one of the most terrifying of futures anyone could imagine. During those years I was blessed with many opportunities to comfort and reassure elderly people whose ability to engage with their surroundings was receding. These people at times were rocking in tears, and the value of one-to-one contact for them both emotionally and physically through holding hands is a lasting memory for me.

In my art piece I hoped to present how the vulnerability and transience of life can feel like water in cupped hands. As the closed hand misses out on engaging with the life of others, it emphasises how the vulnerability of being open and authentic is an essential part of having a lifetime of meaningful interactions with others. Although the defensiveness of the hand protects itself from spilling, its inability to stop leaking causes it to lose its own water, as well as hide away from receiving others input into their life.

The picture of many hands together attempts to illustrate how time can seem to gain in value when given away to others in trust and used collectively. Despite the lack of independence in this system, the picture shows the value of being able to influence and be influenced, and also how the resource can be shuttled between hands to invest in those in greater need such as the elderly and the emerging generation.

Recent months have involved some emotional challenges for me, so reflecting on this subject and the artwork has been both a reward and a struggle. I kept in mind some of the key characters in my life who shaped me as a person whilst drawing many of the hands and tried to give each a measure of uniqueness. Also, developing this perspective helped me to choose to take the risk of authenticity more often than before, and offer genuine connection in conversations.

I understand that the hospital environment can be very pressured, and there are many stories of medical professionals becoming disillusioned by the overwhelming demands of their workload. However, with respect to my future, I hope to find opportunities to stay open and willing to engage in authentic relationships with individuals throughout my time, both within the healthcare environment and in my relationships beyond this profession.

Whole Person Care, Year One, 2014